Why do bad boys like good girls?
We have seen it everywhere. Brusque looking boys arm-in-arm with girls that have faces as innocent as an angel, a plain, simple girl in the middle of a notorious looking group of boys in a campus, or a rough looking boy pummeling the road with enormous speed while a sweet girl, wearing a subtle-pink long skirt, grasps his waist at the back end of his furious looking motorcycle.
What do you think these scenarios have in common? Obviously, a bad boy attached to a good girl, and why is that? Let’s dig into this issue further, as most of you (just like me) is tired of the reason that opposites just naturally attract. It could be right, but there must be a deeper rationale for this extraordinary relationship.
I personally believe that it’s all about the feeling of having a good girl as a conquest. Bad boys have this natural aura of being strong, fierce and ready to pounce on anyone who might do something disapproving of his thoughts or actions. Having a good girl by his side will give him the freedom to continue his ways without having to adjust his attitude. He feels that there is no need for him to be ‘Mr. Nice Guy’, because he feels that good girls will just keep their lips sealed and just follow his whims. Regardless if the boy genuinely likes the girl or not, the fact still remains that his authority on the relationship will suffice at all times. In the relationship developed between a bad boy and a good girl, the boy becomes the ruler while the girl will be the obedient follower. Good girls, in the meantime, go along with these boys and relationships because they feel protected and secured.
I may be wrong, but this is how I see things. It could also be that a boy likes a good girl beside him to soften him a bit, but then that’s another story.