Why Are Girls Mean to Guys They Like?
This question is one of the psychological nature of the female brain, oftentimes accredited as completely insane. In fact there have even been court cases where women have used their pre-menstrual syndrome as an insanity plea, successfully, and thus, women are indeed insane for at least one week for every month, and over emotional for two. That leaves one week of normalcy for the female brain.
With all those hormones running around, it is quite obvious that we would come up with the bright idea to be mean to guys that we really like. It is partly to make them jealous so that they want us more, and partly to show them that we aren’t perfect little princesses that need to be taken care of all the time. Or so we think.
Another positive of this strategy is to see whether they really like us, to try to flirt even when we are being mean to them. We love to test our men, and this is just one of many that follow the initial ‘look’, that look that we give men until they understand that we are actually interested in them.
Yet another reason is to flirt through insulation. The idea, of course, seems ludicrous when putting it on paper or screen, but in reality it works perfectly. Men, you are masochistic SOBs, and when we are mean to you, you eat it up. We have no idea how this power actually works, but it does. It is in fact the reverse of the grade-school boys’ trick of being mean to grade-school girls: this never works. It just confuses girls, and we cannot take that sort of pressure with all the other raging hormones in our bodies. So we must chalk the idea up to this: It is a power which we have over men to get them to like us back, but men only rarely ever succeed when they try their power on us.
June 25, 2012 12:50 am
i have noticed myself, that there are so many ROTTEN WOMEN TODAY. what an ATTITUDE PROBLEM that many women have now, and are so very hard to COMMUNICATE with. there must be so many men that these women have been so VERY BADLY ABUSED BY. of course, this will make it much harder for us GOOD STRAIGHT MEN that are seriously looking to meet a good woman now.
September 20, 2012 10:07 pm
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March 5, 2013 1:13 am
Actually men have been verbally abused and abusing men is fun. And I cheat on men too so that way they get jealous and possessive.
April 4, 2013 1:30 am
Perhaps not call all men masochistic SOBs.
Seriously though, if you want to read your articles, you have to respect all Audiences. Besides the sexist, offensive comment, the article had a “girls rule” attitude. While the author may have had some isolated success, typically playing the mean girl flirt is isn’t effective and confuse guys that aren’t complete jerks turned on by girls that feign disinterest.
All in all, some of info was insightful. Just suggest changing tone/personal view of men.
March 18, 2022 7:06 pm
In my opinion as a man, this is really bad advice to give to other women. It happened to me multiple time’s in my life and I was completely repulsed by that behavior, even if it was obvious that they liked me and in the most cases I was actually attracted by them too, but after acting disrespectful, arrogant or mean towards me I would lose all interest. When I was younger I was just confused and sad, later I would look at them as immature and not worthy to have in my life. I’ve never gave a chance to someone acting like that.