Why Are Girls Mean to Guys They Like?


Why Are Girls Mean to Guys They Like?

This question is one of the psychological nature of the female brain, oftentimes accredited as completely insane. In fact there have even been court cases where women have used their pre-menstrual syndrome as an insanity plea, successfully, and thus, women are indeed insane for at least one week for every month, and over emotional for two. That leaves one week of normalcy for the female brain.

With all those hormones running around, it is quite obvious that we would come up with the bright idea to be mean to guys that we really like. It is partly to make them jealous so that they want us more, and partly to show them that we aren’t perfect little princesses that need to be taken care of all the time. Or so we think.

Another positive of this strategy is to see whether they really like us, to try to flirt even when we are being mean to them. We love to test our men, and this is just one of many that follow the initial ‘look’, that look that we give men until they understand that we are actually interested in them.

Yet another reason is to flirt through insulation. The idea, of course, seems ludicrous when putting it on paper or screen, but in reality it works perfectly. Men, you are masochistic SOBs, and when we are mean to you, you eat it up. We have no idea how this power actually works, but it does. It is in fact the reverse of the grade-school boys’ trick of being mean to grade-school girls: this never works. It just confuses girls, and we cannot take that sort of pressure with all the other raging hormones in our bodies. So we must chalk the idea up to this: It is a power which we have over men to get them to like us back, but men only rarely ever succeed when they try their power on us.

Author: kelsey

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7 Responses

  1. franko says

    June 25, 2012 12:50 am

    i have noticed myself, that there are so many ROTTEN WOMEN TODAY. what an ATTITUDE PROBLEM that many women have now, and are so very hard to COMMUNICATE with. there must be so many men that these women have been so VERY BADLY ABUSED BY. of course, this will make it much harder for us GOOD STRAIGHT MEN that are seriously looking to meet a good woman now.

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    September 20, 2012 10:07 pm

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  3. Hanuman Vishnu

    November 28, 2012 10:39 am

    I think girls are just dicks in general. Especially this one named Laura, man i swear she can be a straight dick sometimes. I hope she reads this one day. She’s such a cunt.

  4. LR

    March 5, 2013 1:13 am

    Actually men have been verbally abused and abusing men is fun. And I cheat on men too so that way they get jealous and possessive.

  5. James Brooke

    April 4, 2013 1:30 am

    Perhaps not call all men masochistic SOBs.
    Seriously though, if you want to read your articles, you have to respect all Audiences. Besides the sexist, offensive comment, the article had a “girls rule” attitude. While the author may have had some isolated success, typically playing the mean girl flirt is isn’t effective and confuse guys that aren’t complete jerks turned on by girls that feign disinterest.
    All in all, some of info was insightful. Just suggest changing tone/personal view of men.

  6. anon

    June 13, 2013 4:53 am

    This is completely stupis that you’re actually trying to justify being a bitch. Thinking that being mean actually making guys jealous is total bullshit. Anyone who would fall in that trap is a moron, but if you’re looking for a serious relationship you would know that it makes nobody jealous. Jealous of what? Being mean is no way to win guys over. Successful relationships work when each partner is fair to one another. If you honestly can’t be upfront then you’re going in a failed relationship. Just another majority of broken couples and divorced partners. Its people like you who are too idiotic to realize what a successful relationship is that you have to try your hardest to be an attention whore to let yourself be a bitch.

  7. Oli

    August 7, 2013 7:07 pm

    Dumb silly immature GIRLS are mean, whilst sensible mature REAL WOMEN know how to get what they want without being stupid head-fucking drama-loving attention-seeking bitches!


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